ext: Update pybind11 to version 2.6.2.

This should help reduce warning spew when building with newer compilers.
The pybind11::module type has been renamed pybind11::module_ to avoid
conflicts with c++20 modules, according to the pybind11 changelog, so
this CL also updates gem5 source to use the new type. There is
supposedly an alias pybind11::module which is for compatibility, but we
still get linker errors without changing to pybind11::module_.

Change-Id: I0acb36215b33e3a713866baec43f5af630c356ee
Reviewed-on: https://gem5-review.googlesource.com/c/public/gem5/+/40255
Maintainer: Bobby R. Bruce <bbruce@ucdavis.edu>
Reviewed-by: Bobby R. Bruce <bbruce@ucdavis.edu>
Tested-by: kokoro <noreply+kokoro@google.com>

ext/pybind11/tests/test_local_bindings.cpp

@@ -41,7 +41,7 @@ TEST_SUBMODULE(local_bindings, m) {
     // should raise a runtime error from the duplicate definition attempt.  If test_class isn't
     // available it *also* throws a runtime error (with "test_class not enabled" as value).
     m.def("register_local_external", [m]() {
-        auto main = py::module::import("pybind11_tests");
+        auto main = py::module_::import("pybind11_tests");
         if (py::hasattr(main, "class_")) {
             bind_local<LocalExternal, 7>(m, "LocalExternal", py::module_local());
         }