ext: Update pybind11 to v2.8.1

Change-Id: Ia1c7081377f53fd470addf35526f8b28a949a7b0
Signed-off-by: Jason Lowe-Power <jason@lowepower.com>
Reviewed-on: https://gem5-review.googlesource.com/c/public/gem5/+/52523
Maintainer: Bobby R. Bruce <bbruce@ucdavis.edu>
Tested-by: kokoro <noreply+kokoro@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Gabe Black <gabe.black@gmail.com>

ext/pybind11/tests/test_embed/external_module.cpp

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ namespace py = pybind11;
 PYBIND11_MODULE(external_module, m) {
     class A {
     public:
-        A(int value) : v{value} {};
+        explicit A(int value) : v{value} {};
         int v;
     };