ext: Updated Pybind11 to version 2.4.1.

This updates Pybind11 from version 2.2.1 to version 2.4.1. This fixes
warning/error received when "<experiment/optional>" is used when
compiling using c++14 with clang. It should be noted that
"ext/pybind11/include/pybind11/std.h" has been changed to include a fix
added by commit ba42457254. This is
necessary to avoid build errors.

Built: Linux (gcc, c++11) and MacOS (clang, c++14).
Tested: Ran quick tests for X86, ARM, and RISC-V.
Deprecates: https://gem5-review.googlesource.com/c/public/gem5/+/21019
Change-Id: Ie9783511cb6be50136076a55330e645f4f36d075
Reviewed-on: https://gem5-review.googlesource.com/c/public/gem5/+/21119
Reviewed-by: Jason Lowe-Power <jason@lowepower.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Sandberg <andreas.sandberg@arm.com>
Maintainer: Jason Lowe-Power <jason@lowepower.com>
Maintainer: Andreas Sandberg <andreas.sandberg@arm.com>
Tested-by: kokoro <noreply+kokoro@google.com>

ext/pybind11/tests/test_factory_constructors.cpp

@@ -13,7 +13,7 @@
 #include <cmath>
 
 // Classes for testing python construction via C++ factory function:
-// Not publically constructible, copyable, or movable:
+// Not publicly constructible, copyable, or movable:
 class TestFactory1 {
     friend class TestFactoryHelper;
     TestFactory1() : value("(empty)") { print_default_created(this); }
@@ -285,6 +285,7 @@ TEST_SUBMODULE(factory_constructors, m) {
     // test_reallocations
     // Class that has verbose operator_new/operator_delete calls
     struct NoisyAlloc {
+        NoisyAlloc(const NoisyAlloc &) = default;
         NoisyAlloc(int i) { py::print(py::str("NoisyAlloc(int {})").format(i)); }
         NoisyAlloc(double d) { py::print(py::str("NoisyAlloc(double {})").format(d)); }
         ~NoisyAlloc() { py::print("~NoisyAlloc()"); }